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Okay what should I do?! I found half naked pictures of girls on his phone... I just deleted them... Then I found that he was reading a lot of nasty girl sex books... But gives me a hard time for reading fifty shades of grey... I don't really want to control the him about it, I know he will turn it back on me and ask why I was looking through his phone... What do I do?!

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Either confront him about it or forget about it and move on.

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Leave him. You have better things to do than spend all your damn time on his stupidity. I'm sure you're beautful and kind , don't tolerate that! That's not okay and if he doesn't respect you ( clearly he isn't) you have no reason to respect him. That's just disrespectful. ?

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I know these two cases are different, and my experience is not the same as you,  but I know for a FACT that my husband looks at Porn 2-3 times a week. I also know he looks up pictures of naked women on the web, and so forth. It does not bother me because he was like that before we met(we have been together for 5 years, and married for 4) Our schedules are opposite ( I works days, and he works graveyard), so there is a possibility that we can only bd once a week. Since I am not there to "relieve" him, I do not hold it against him for just doing that. If you are uncomfortable about it,  I would definitely talk to him. If it is something that bothers you, you have every right to voice how you feel. Every relationship is different,  I don't judge women for not being okay with their SO doing doing that. I completely understand why you will feel this way. It can be very upsetting seeing those things. If he saves pictures on his phone, I would let him know that it bothers you.

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I had something like that happen with my hubby and I. I found the pictures on he's phone. I ask him about it and he said that he was bored. I told him how it made me felt and if he ever did it again I would leave him. Now we have a agreement that at anytime I want I can take his phone and look through it. We also agree that we would password is phone. So when he want to get on line I put the password in and he sits close to me. He does the same thing to my phone. It a safeguard for us. And it keeps us accountable to each other.  
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I don't want to confront him about it

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