Is this wrong?

So, I recently left my BF. He didn't have his priorities straight & I got tired of it. I felt like I was the only one preparing & maturing for our baby. So when I was moving home, his dad started saying some very rude things to me. I told my ex BF he can still be involved in the baby's life, but if his parents want to be grandparents an have anything to do with this baby I need an apology from his dad. I don't wanna be around people who can't respect me & I certainly don't want my child around people who can't respect their mother. Am I being irrational or would you do the same?