Okay I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3years an we have two handsome boys I love him but I'm sick of his mess

I can't go anywhere with out the explaining myself if I wear make up he ask me a million questions on why I have it on?

Which is annoying he follows me where ever I go

An its starting to get to me

If he see me cleaning he want even help I have to yell at him like he a lil boy or some

Honestly I'm not sure if I wanna be with him anymore

I love him

But its annoying tf outta me

I don't wanna leave cause of the kids an I'm all for making it work out

But how much can I take