Does he really want this baby?

Question

I found out I was pregnant 3 days after my fiancé, baby's daddy, left for AIT with the military. I spent the entire first trimester by myself, and while he was away at Fort Lee he seemed so excited. He talked about the baby, and plans, and how he was so happy. He came home recently and moved in with me, but now it seems like everything has changed. He changes the subject when it comes to baby or the future, he doesn't even really acknowledge that I'm pregnant. 
It hurts me. I love this baby so much, I don't understand why he doesn't even seem to want it. What do I do? This is my first baby. Am I gonna be raising him or her on my own?

Answer

Maybe he is a little different because of things that happened at training, and maybe nothing that has to do with you or the pregnancy?  Have you asked him about his experience?  I wonder..,
(I would ask separately from any conversation about you or the pregnancy, to be sure he will spill the most beans on the subject and not feel up against a wall)

Answer

Hopefully it is just him going from army life to cilivilain life! I know when my husband came home from basic training and AIT he seemed like a completely different person. After a month or two though things started to go back to normal! Good luck to you though and I hope everything works out of you. :)

Answer

Men are like us women...sometimes they need our time and attention and reassurance.  With the baby coming and at the same time dealing with what ever he has going on could be an overload.

Does he really want this baby?

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