Is love enough?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3years but have been friends for over 15 years. He cheated and got his ex pregnant which I found out later down the line. He has been incarcerated for most of our relationship and I've stepped out as well thinking that it would heal my passion of him being away as well as him messing around. He has another 3years left in his sentence, we love each other very much but it's that enough?

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Sometimes love is about letting go. Maybe it is a great time to reflect on what you want in life. And sadly his cheating actions have resulted in a child. Just think about all that another woman's child will affect your relationship..

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Look I know we all have our opinions. ..and you will do what you think is right for you. But girl leave his ass....he can't do anything for you while he's in jail and maybe even he comes out.  He may even cheat again cuz he has to see his baby so he will see the mom. I hope you find a man who loves you and respect you,  give you all your heart desire.....real talk

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I would have said good bye after he cheated and got her pregnant.

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Run, run like hell!!!!

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I'm not gonna doubt y'all's love for each other or anything because everyone makes mistakes... But y'all both cheated on each other and he got a girl pregnant because of it... Do you really think that's a healthy relationship to be in? And correct me if I'm wrong but I'm assuming that y'all's relationship is not an open one.

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It sounds like your relationship with him is kinda rocky. If he's cheated on you and gotten another woman pregnant, I think it's time to look at the bigger picture and think about how this will affect your future. From personal experience when your other has a child with another woman, no matter how much you live him, it causes a terrible void between you that is not easily undone. I say just take a look at your life and where you want it to go. There are plenty of good men who won't cheat or go to jail.

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Take a line from Frozen: Let It Go.

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If you are even questioning your love do you really believe that it is enough? I completely understand being scared because you have been friends for so long. Having love for someone and being IN love is completely different. Trust is number 1. If you have no trust then you have nothing. I myself could never look at my SO the same if he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant. That being said my brother and his wife have been married for 10 years and he cheated on her and got another girl pregnant and then got her pregnant. (This all happened before they were married and they worked through it because they wanted to be together). Happily married now. After working through the hard times. That is a decision you have to live with and make. You have to think with your heart and how much you can take. Can you wait 3 more years to be with someone. Even though you are questioning it now. It almost sounds like you have already made the decision.

Is love enough?

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