If a person has been off all forms of birth control for 3 1/2 years, but not charting anything just not preventing pregnancy is that considered "trying". Or are you TTC when you start charting and BDing on fertile days, tempurature taking ect. My doctor told me in august that after that long without unprotected sex and not conceiving it means something is wrong, but she couldn't find anything other than me being a bit overweight and having celiac disease. Just wanted your opinions?