I'm very curious

So... I've always said one day I want to have a child, but I'm very scared of giving birth. Can anyone share their stories? Like does it really hurt, how did you take the pain? How did it affect you after? & does it make you loose? I'm so scared of giving birth, because I can't even deal with my cramps, I literally have to miss work, & school and no medicine works beside 4 model and a heating pad. I'll literally be on the floor and can't move or stand screaming.. That's Howe bad my cramps are.!!!