TTC after miscarriage

Yasemin • Married to wonderful hubby! Have two gorgeous girls 16 and 9. Trying for number 3.
So I started bleeding lightly on Oct 21 the fetus was expelled Nov 2. When do I count the date of the MC? From when I started to bleed or when everything came out? Btw I stopped bleeding a day after the fetus was expelled, is that normal? Can I start BD now?  Or wait 6 wks I'm confused help!!! What did some of you do who have been through this?