Being a virgin forever?

Question

I'm 19 and will be 20 in June 2015 and still have my virginty, my mom is rushing me to have a child, and I understand it's because she doesn't have much more time to live because she's sick. But I feel so pressured , and I'm not so sure I want to ever lose my virginty does that make me weird ? All my friends always tell me how great sex is, and that it'd help my stress go away.

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Don't do what others pressure you to do, be you and do you

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Dont be pressured into it. If you want to have sex or not that is ABSOLUTELY up to you. If you dont thats great, if you do thats great too, but never do anything you feel pressured to. It can end up being a downward spiral, even though im sure you love your mom and im sorry to hear shes sick but you shouldnt do something that you dont want.

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You need to do what's right for you. I was 26 when I finally found the man that I loved enough to give up my virginity. Now I'm married for 2 years and had my first child 3 months ago. Follow your heart. I know that is corny but the truth. Doing something because you are feeling pressured will only make you regret it always.

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Hold onto that virginity as long as you want to. Another day, week, year, whatever- just do it for you. I understand what your mom is getting at, but deep down, as much as she'd love to see a grandbaby before she doesn't have the opportunity, I'm sure she'd want you to respect your own wishes.

As far as what your friends say, let em have fun. If you need a way to de-stress, just take care of yourself! Up until recently, all the sex I was getting was horrible and I preferred masturbating anyway, lol.

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Don't let your mom pressure you. If you aren't ready then that's it. It's not her body.

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Dont feel pressured because of your mom sickness. I lost my virginity when I was 20, a couple of months before my 21st bday. Let it come to you, wait for a person you trust and comfortable sexually and mentally. Dont just do it to do it, you might end up regretting it.

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