Don't be so sensitive!

Ok I get that there's women on here who say totally uncalled for things or are just "trolling" but then on the other side there's women in here who are WAY TOO DEFENSIVE!  If someone isn't being overtly rude to you or openly bashing you there's no need to jump down their throat!  Not agreeing with someone's opinion or not liking the honest info they provide is not a reason to get defensive and turn it on them!  Especially if the issue is you just not understanding what they're saying!  We need to realize this is a PUBLIC forum so the general public will respond if you put it out there!!!!  Ok rant over ?