Having a husband in the military is so hard when TTC. My husband is in the Navy so he gets deployed every two years. By the time he got back from his last deployment to his next one we only have 19 months all together(not including all the underway before deployment that probably ruin being home during fertile weeks)

If I don't get pregnant in the next two months he won't be home for the birth of our child. And I'm not ok with that. So we will stop after Jan from trying. Then we are gonna try the month before he leaves so he can come home around the time it's born. But then he would miss my whole pregnancy. If I don't get pregnant that month it would be over 2 years of waiting to get pregnant.

It just mAkes me stressed out. I love my husband and I am so proud of him for being a sailor. I just wish I didn't have to plan a baby around deployments :(