Low Sex Drive at 21??

Question

I've been with my SO for almost 4 years. He was my first and only. We are in a very good place in our relationship, low stress, ect. But for the past year and a half my sex drive has gone downhill, like disappeared. Like the thought of sex does nothing for me, masterbation doesn't even interest me anymore. And I used to do it every single day! I don't ever want to fool around until he's inside me, THEN I want sex. I don't understand it. Can anybody please help?

Answer

I've been with my guy for four years... The sex we first started having was great. I mean,best I ever had.

Over the years... I've lost interest. I've never been into masturbation, so that didn't help me either. Why would I not want to have sex with the guy that's great at it.... And one that I love.... ?!?

Recently, we've discovered some underlying issues. Things that we thought were okay,but really weren't. We opened up our communication and are making an effort to REALLY talk to one another.

Try a little spice. Light some candles. Ask him for a special massage. Have him give you a great, legitimate massage for about 20 minutes, after that.... Let his hands wander. I've noticed that gets me in the mood.

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I'm the same way although my sex drive went down hill at 18. Now we have sex literally once a month or not at all. He use to complain, but now he's gotten use to it *shrugs* we've been together for 6yrs. Sometimes he'll push for it and be assertive about what he wants and I oblige him because I know we don't ever really do anything.

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It comes and goes. I would just talk and explore with your partner. If they are willing to explore with you. There's plenty of books, even classes, 'toy' shops. Education goes a long way. You're still pretty young, your body doesn't really even out on hormones until you're 25. Hang in there, and HAVE FUN! ;)

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Are you on birth control, as my sex drive disappeared

Low Sex Drive at 21??

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