So dh and I are ttc#2. My first I wasn't ttc If it happened great but we didn't track but looking back it still took us about 9 months of no protection to conceive. This time around we are actively ttc but with my periods all over the place I'm not sure of anything. July - mid September no period only to spot then get extremely heavy period mid October. Now looks like I'm late again. We have been trying for 8 months now. Help I'm becoming discouraged.