Ovulation Concerns

Hello ladies u ovulate on cycle 12 and maybe around cycle 10 i have the worst pain during sex and at the time of ovulation i am moody i do not exsperiance a high sex drive at all like most women or feel more sexier during any of these time my boyfriend and i argued at the time of having sex ttc because he didn't want sex on ovulation so can someone tell me if you are experiencing the same things