Virgin!?

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When my fiancè and I first got together, we told each other everything, including how many people we have had intercourse with. After the first time we had intercourse, he informed me that he was actually a virgin.. Should I be mad/upset that he lied?

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He was more than likely embarrassed and didn't want to disappoint you . Now if he slept with people and said he was a virgin that's a different story

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He was probably embarrassed and nervous. Why would you be mad?

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Don't worry about it!! My now husband said around our first time it had 'been a while' since his 'last time'. Then later he told me it was actually his first and I thought it was adorable! Not in a cutesy way but yeah. Love him all the same either way!

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Well, he is not a virgin anymore, lol. You can be upset he lied but this could be a good thing for you. ;)

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My now husband lied about his age when we met. He also lied about how many partners he had.
Pick your battles if you want it to work.

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I would actually be too thrilled about it to be upset. What a special thing you both shared! ❤️

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I would be mad he lied. I mean you specifically had a conversation in which I'm assuming he told you a number of partners. My SO was a virgin when we started dating and I am def happy I knew. I as the more experienced person was much more sensitive and careful the first time, I'm happy I was aware and was able to make sure he was enjoying his first time. I'd suggest having a conversation about why he felt the need to lie.

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