I need that bfp!!!

Hey ladies ..so I'm 11dpo and been having mild AF like cramps since 9dpo ... I always get strong cramps but just a day before AF and it isn't due till 15 dpo ..also sore throat started today and runny stuffy nose since yesterday.. Very sleepy since 8 do but Idk if its just me ..any thoughts? Same symptoms with bfp afterwards? Comparisons? Buddies to wait to test? I am testing Friday at 13 dpo