Anyone have/had this problem?

Question

My boyfriend told me tonight that he is upset that I don't like having sex or am never into it or don't orgasm. He says I'm his most difficult because his exes hVe all been satisfied by him. I never ever get off. Don't know what to do...

Answer

Foreplay foreplay foreplay!!! Also a romantic dinner and massage might help to set the mood. Get romantic! Get creative. I bet it will help! Best of luck!

Answer

Are you on birth control? That may have something to do with your sex drive. Try buying a vibrator for you two to use in bed, it helped me!

Answer

First off he needs someone to explain to him that most women don't orgasm every time they have sex, and women don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex. It's not the be-all-end-all like it seems to be for men.

Second, I would suggest that you make an effort to do a few things. Namely, initiate sex more often, and be more clear about telling him what you want while having sex. You can ask first "can we try some things? Can I tell you what to do this time?" And run with it.

Just have a play session where you guys try some things to figure out what works best for you. And be HONEST and tell him when something doesn't feel great. If you talk honestly and openly about how sex feels and what feels good and what doesn't, then he can feel more confident that he is really making you feel good when he does.

It can be awkward at first but in the long run, the sex is better and both people feel more confident and attuned to their partner.

Answer

Start off with oral sex ....amazing outcome Everytime ! Good luck

Answer

Tell him what you want, or what will help you climax.  Or let him use toys on you.

Answer

Tell him what you want. During sex. Feel free to be a little bossy.
Show him too ; )

Answer

He shouldn't be getting angry. It's the same with me and my husband though. His ex girlfriends were all easy but because I was a virgin when we got together I'm a lot more awkward and stuff. It kinda discourages him but it gives him a challenge at the same time. I never masturbated or anything before we got together so we explore my body together and I think that's nice.

Anyone have/had this problem?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products