Should he be the father?

Question

I'm with a guy who treats me fairly well when it's convenient for him but when I need the pregnancy attention like rubbing cream on my tummy, giving a massage doing anything romantic but when he needs his hair done or any help finding stuff or being pampered in other ways I jump how should I react to this? Leave him? Express how neglected I'm feeling or just settle cause he's never going to change or do I deserve better? I'm feeling very low self esteem!

Answer

Men are the farthest thing from a mind reader you gotta tell them what you want and they need constant reminders. Be patient with him and yourself.

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Just because he doesn't do all that doesn't mean he shouldn't be the father to the baby. It's his child too! 
Talk to him about your feelings, you can't expect things to change if you don't tell him

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And whether he does things for you or not isn't gonna tell you if he's a good father!?!

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Guys are different than girls. We like to think they should just know what we need from them but they don't. My husband and I have been together 9 years and it took a long time for him to understand what I need and for it to really sink in. Tell him and if it doesn't change talk to him again. Don't do it negatively but just tell him what you need from him. Keep working with him on it. As the saying goes, we teach others how to treat us. Plus he may not know what to do now that you are pregnant. I know I'm going to have to be patient with my husband when I become pregnant bc he just won't know what to do! Best wishes!

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Tell him nicely and openly what you want, I know for me I rub the cream on myself and don't expect my husband to do it, my hubby will rub feet ect but I do same for him, it's give and take in a relationship

Should he be the father?

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