Do you think it's ok to ask? I'm not sure why, but it drives me crazy. We like many, couldn't afford <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a>. We made many sacrifices, worked extra jobs, hours, sold a truck, sold furniture and cut back on bills. It was hard, and we had to give up a lot. For some, I don't understand how couples can beg for money and not think to save or sacrifice any on their own. If you want it bad enough, you will make it work. Take out loans, apply for grants. I wouldn't want donation towards our fertility journey and allowed people to feel as if we had our child just because of them. It's our struggle, journey and ours to fix. Typically I read the stories, the couples live in nice homes, drive nice cars, take vacations (they post pictures and stories) and I can't help but wonder..,.why should the people donating sacrifice and not the couple wanting a baby?