How would you take this?

So I am allergic to the Red 40 colorent. & my SO has asked me not to ware make up because he likes natural better & his mom has made it clear she doesn't like me & doesn't want us together.
My SO's mom just gave me make up for Christmas- she knows I don't ware it & that I'm allergic to the dye.
The ingredients clearly say Red 40...
Would you take it as her saying I'm ugly or that she doesn't care if I get sick?