Feeling huge at 13w&5d

I am only 13 weeks and 5 days with my first baby but I am feeling huge. I think some of it is bloat but there's definitely a bump there! Also, we weren't trying to get pregnant but we did and feel so excited and lucky that we are able to have children. Sorry to read about everyone ttc but you really need to stop hating. A little jealousy is one thing but I've been reading a lot of negative things about people who got pregnant without trying and it's getting ridiculous. We deserve to be just as happy as anyone else and maybe your time will come and maybe it won't. Doesn't mean we deserve the hate because our bodies are different than yours.