FTM due Feb 1st with a boy

Savannah
Hi ladies. I'm a ftm and I'm getting extremely anxious about L&D. I have about 5 weeks left until my little guy is supposed to be here. How do I calm my nerves? When did you mommies start dilating? I'm not doing an epidural for my own reasons. Going natural. No pain meds. Any induced? 
Thank you :)