I'm 28 and my husband has been the only one to ever get me off ONCE and it was the only orgasm I have ever had. This is so frustrating..... Am I the only one that seems to have this issue.... Building up with oral doesn't do anything for me either .... I love doing it to him but dont really like for it to be done to me.... Before him I was very active and experienced .... So it has nothing to do with that. *sigh* lol