How do I deal?

Question

I met this amazing man two years ago. I fell in love and we have 2 beautiful twin baby girls that we both love to death. But recently I found that he has been messaging other women.  He is a complete womanizer.  What's the best thing to do for my children?

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Don't stay with someone you're unhappy with "for the sake of the children". If you're not happy, it's likely that they won't be either at some point. I know I would rather see my mom happy than emotionally neglected and abused. It sends the wrong message about how you allow others to treat you.

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Better to leave now than stay together for the kids. They'll be more hurt if you split later in life. By the sounds of it there isn't any worry he'll leave the picture completely and you're happy with him as a father so really it's whatever makes you happiest. 
Happy mommy = happy babies!

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Leaving him shouldn't jeopardize their relationship with him. You do what you have to do to be a better person and mother. That's what's good for your girls. And they can see him whenever he visits or takes them for a while, separation is doable.

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Talk to him if you haven't already. Give him an ultimatum. Either he stop talking to other women or you're going to leave him. Maybe suggest couples counseling.

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You have children and you love him and your children.. In this case we have to make sacrifices.. I advice to speak with him and confront him.. Give him a chance to prove and better himself and if he can't, leave. It's going to be hard but hard work will pay off.

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That's a hard one. You need to be happy, and be in only a relationship that you would want for your girls. You are not married so that's a good thing. If you don't think you can be with him or rebuild trust then I would say you need to get out now, while it's early and they are young. What did he say about it all? Is he sorry or do you think it will be a reoccurring thing?

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