Scared 2 Test..don't want disappointment af was due the 26th

Sorry if tmi I'm usually clock work with my cycles and if me and my fiancé have sex round the time it will usually drop down but we have twice and no af no bad cramping just on and off mild and or if I BM round that time af will push down. I have had previous pregnancies and with both I experienced spotting around time for af this month no spotting either anyone suggest should I wait it out or what?