I need help please..disturbing but..

I feel like there is something wrong with me I have such a hard time orgasming when I have sex what if I have a sexual disfunction because half the time I can't orgasm...only one position works with my husband and I..I'm terrified to tell him that I don't usually orgasm but I might wreck him if I tell him..he's great in bed it just takes so much for me..so lost :/

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

I never had orgasm during sex. Only oral or by hand. So you actually are lucky

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Alyssa • Dec 30, 2014

same ;( lol

Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

I rarely have an orgasm during sex. And if I do it's from clitorus stimulation. Find what gives you an orgasm with you masturbate and use hat method in bed with your husband. 

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

It took me 14 years to finally have my first REAL orgasm...no lie and I was with my daughters dad for 7 years...but now the S/O I'm with I orgasm 5-10 times within 10 min...at first I was only able to when on top but I got over my insecurity bout it and now I can with a few positions...just talk to him and he will hopefully understand. And a lot of it has to do with u thinking about it during sex. My doctor told me that bout myself lol

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Stephanie • Dec 30, 2014

to be able to really have a good O you will need to know your body. If you dont know right where your spot is and how to hit it, hiw will he? it may be will to explore but its the only way to find out what you like. Good luck

Sam • Dec 30, 2014

I also find it weird for myself to masturbate...I know that's weird and different but I don't like the feeling

Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

Not all women orgasms, it is hardworking to actually do it. My partner can do it by his hand, and sometimes during sex, the most annoying thing though is on that urge of orgasming and then it stops, gets me frustrated lol x 

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

I've never had an orgasm through sex. 

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

A TON of women don't even orgasm at all during sex. Be happy you even can. Your perfectly normal.

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

New positions is never bad he should be willing to at least try st the end of the day he will still ejaculate

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Posted at Tue, Dec 30 2014

Even if you have a sexual disease the cure is extra stimulation sight sound touch .