Birth control

Monica • Soon to be mother of two. I`m ready to have more I`m energetic and outgoing , ready to meet moms and moms to be and connect
So My bf believes i should be on . But I have been very nervous in using birth control because I see the risk it has with your body and I'm scared that if I use it, it will affect me and cause me to be infertile and Lord knows I desperately want children. I need some advice. Is it safe? How effective is it? What do I do?