Am I being unreasonable ????!!

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So we finally got our BFP after 8 months of trying and now my DH and I are arguing because I want to go for a blood test and see the gynecologist Asap because we had 2 miscarriages in the past. I feel he doesn't care even though he swears he does.

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You don't need him for you to go to the Dr. He doesn't have to know.

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I've miscarried twice now to if I were you I'd get an appointment asap. Let them No your pregnant as well. My doctor wrote me a prescription for a medication that you insert into your vagina while you are pregnant and it boosts the placenta. You should look into it to :) good luck.

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Even if you want to see the doctor ASAP there's no guarantee that they would see you as soon as you'd like

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He's prob just trying to protect himself

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Do what's best for you and baby

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I actually waited because of my 2 miscarriages this year...I can't handle getting good news and then bad if something should go wrong. It's completely your choice though

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If you do miscarry there's nothing they can do to stop or prevent it.
I completed one in aug that took 22 days to start to bleed after I was told it was dead at my first ultrasound. It had died that day or the night before. I was afraid after it was completed and I had healed from needing 2 units of blood cuz I was bleeding out, and I passed out and got a concussion. I told my husband that if we fell pregnant again that he had to be at every single ultrasound but I soon realized I don't need him to be there because I am strong. I went through so much and I fear in the ER I'd never see my son again and his last memory of me would be his dad telling him I left in the middle of the night because I was sick. I made it through that and if I could do that then I can do anything. I also got a tattoo that's a reminder/memorial one for me. It says "there's always an &" it's fairly large and on my thigh. It reminds me there's more to life and it keeps me focused.

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There is no point in going. If it happens it happens and the doctor can't do anything about it.

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Unfortunately if your gonna miscarry there's nothing a doctor can really do. But if it will make you feel more comfortable talk to him again. Good luck. Fingers crossed for you. Xx

Am I being unreasonable ????!!

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