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My boyfriend is starting massage therapy school in march. I don't want him going because he will be working with naked women, With only a towel on and I'm not okay with that. What should I do? 
Am I overreacting?

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Well if that's the career he chooses, that will be what he does everyday. So, if you can't trust him, than maybe you aren't in the right relationship....

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My husband is a massage therapist. It's wonderful haha! I know his heart and it's only for me and never have to worry about him lusting over another woman. Look at it like you are dating a doctor. It's not a sexual thing (with his clients lol) he sees a problem they have and helps them :)

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If this is something he is taking seriously and wanted to do for a long time then he WILL be professional about the job. Massage is a form of medicine to help muscles, cancer patients, and injuries, etc. He will also be touching lots of men too. And no, they aren't always only wearing a towel some stay partially clothed.  If he is a creep and comes onto these women then that's a different story and he would loose his job. In that case, you should move on from him if he can't be professional in the work place then most likely he is doing a whole lot worse outside of work.

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Honestly you're overreacting, think of the benefits ;) 
And legally he isn't allowed to see or touch his clients in any sexual way.

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Depends, how much do they get paid? Jokes!
​But thats like him saying "oh, you cant become a model because people will look at you" or "you cant become a airhostess because you will look cute in the uniform and no ither guy is allowed to see you"
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​I get jealous too, but you just have to understand. Trust him.  Just be serious.  Its not a porn movie, it wont lead to sex, he is just doing his job.

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Massage is not sexual. I have a suggestion. Go to a male massage therapist a few times - try different ones. Just to get it through your mind that its just massage. At first it may be a little weird for him but then he will get used to the bodies. Also if you are thinking of woman hitting on him, talk to Jim. I've talked to massage therapists friends about this and everyone has had that one creepy client. But its a trust thing.

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