Fears about motherhood?

Question

People always talk about how excited they are for the future and to have kids which I am too but am I the only one that has major fears about it too? 
Like one of my biggest fears is that once I become a mom I will loose myself. Like I'll be one of those moms who's kids are their whole world and they no longer have friends out side of play dates and they don't do the stuff they love anymore. That's terrifying to me. 
Do you ladies have fears? What are they?

Answer

I was scared at first but pregnancy weeded out the fake friends. I don't see my friends everyday but we still make time for each other.

My son is my whole world. Before him I would smoke a lot and paint/draw and go for walks outside. I also worked a lot.  Now that I have him I don't smoke anymore but we do crafts together and go to the park often and I'm a SHAM.

He made me and his dad better versions of ourselves.

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I had so many fears, still do. I have two boys and I still worry about if I'm a good enough mother. If I'm raising them right. My biggest fear about becoming a mother was not getting sleep lol, I haven't slept through the night in almost a year but it's really not bad. Unfortunatly, I did lose myself and friends and can't even find play dates to go to. I do something just for myself each week which helps. The friends I started seeing less after I moved out of town with my husband but now I don't see them at all.

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I think the friends fear is more on who ur friends r if theyre ur true friends theyll b there after u have ur baby. My fear and continuous fear is losing my kids. I miscarried twice b4 i had my son and now im literally terrified of either waking up one morning and finding one had died or not being fast enough wen their outside and they get kidnapped or hit by a car. Im a hawk wen it comes to them and Im very cautious about whos around them

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Holy cow I was talking to my best friend this weekend (and drinking) about how I couldn't handle a baby and how terrifying it seemed. Today I took a test on a whim and guess what I saw- a BFP. Wasn't expected AT ALL. So here I am- 5 weeks and some days. Holy cow... I am Terrified!

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I fear not being able to complete my bucket list, or losing my already dwindling sex life.

Fears about motherhood?

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