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Well I been with my boyfriend for a couple months and when we have sex he usually eats my out but I never gave him head. He's my second boyfriend and I never gave my last boyfriend head. I don't even know how to. But I was told if I don't do it then someone else will . Help ?!  Anyone got any good tips or anything ?

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If he said that to you and wasnt kidding then hes a dick and doesnt deserve it.

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Don't do it if you aren't comfortable with it. That would be the WORST thing to do. Only you know what your limits are and what you are comfortable with. 
I do it to my husband and he enjoys it and I enjoy giving it to him. But I didn't do it until I was ready.
If he respects you, he will also respect your feelings and understand if you don't want to, and he won't try to pressure you to.

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Blow jobs are part of long term trusting relationships. Don't receive if you don't want to give, that's just selfish and rude lol... But on a serious note, it can be good foreplay for you too! I LOVE giving my fiance oral. Not necessarily because I like the actual act itself, but there's something powerful and super sexy about having him so vulnerable and watching him get turned on. PLUS he always gets way bigger because of how much he gets turned on so that's good for me too. AND you could ask him for anything and he would say yes. (I'm only half kidding... We just got a new puppy haha)

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i need to address something that seems to be over looked here if he is threatening to leave you if you don't give him head then he will get it elsewhere anyway and had no attachment to your relationship

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Wow. Was he kidding? I have never given my bf head, been together for 4 years and still going strong. I can't open my mouth as wide as most people so previous boyfriends did not enjoy my teeth scranching them. He teases me about it in a joking manner, but doesn't hold it against me. Do what you feel comfortable doing because there is a man out there who will love you for who you are. Good luck! 😊

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Do it because all is fair in love and war. Eye for an eye babe. Eating pussy is way scarier than sucking D (speaking from personal experience.) Unless, you wanna forfeit your own pleasure just so you won't have to reciprocate... It's really really easy to do. No teeth, all tongue, and use your hands at the same.

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Don't let him con you into something you are not comfortable with.. If he can understand that then he doesn't deserve you. However, if you are interested in doing so, take your time and make sure it is something you really want to do. But I would let him know you will not have him treat you that way

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If you do it, do it because you want to, not because someone tells you he'll get it elsewhere. 😑 I'd slap whoever said that.

I dated 5 guys, married a different one, and never have any of them BJs because I thought it was gross and degrading. ALL of them asked, and I refused. If a guy cares about you, he'll respect that.

My current bf is the first one I've given a BJ to, and he never asked. He actually said he didn't really like them, he prefers sex, but I wanted to do it for him... he loved it. At first, I was probably awkward but once I saw he was into it, I got really into it, and you just kinda go with it. He'll let you know what feels good. With the right guy, it's a great thing to do. I actually really enjoy it and I swore I'd never do it. But everything is different with this one 😊😍

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