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So just looking for other advice on this subject . I have been with my boyfriend for just about 3 years , our relationship has never been picture perfect , but no relationship ever is . But beside this point over a year ago I went to a family wedding he felt uncomfortable and bored so he left early so I stayed and had a few drinks with my family I was enjoying myself . A family friend had asked me to dance so we slow danced to a song with a 100 plus people around. Mind you I have none this guy for years . Anyways mu boyfriend fliped out because he said he could see the look in out eyes when we looked at each other . ? Which I mean I can't really deny because he is extremely good looking bit highly doubt he sees me for anything other than a friend . Anyways lately we have been having some augments but than my boyfriend texted me while I was out saying he knew me and this guy have been talking which isn't true because I know it bothers him . But he like made it up to get a reaction out of me ? He talks to women and I don't freak out . Just wondering what any one else opinions are on this . I love my boyfriend we live together and I care alot about him some days I do wonder what it would be like to to leave because the stress can be over whelimg but I k never leave . I just don't know why he feels it's okay to talk to other women but I can't speak to a guy I've none 10 plus years . ..
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Ka

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Honestly a lot of men reflect their own  insecurities/infidelity on their partner. I was in an abusive relationship for two years and he always accused me of cheating or made me feel guilty for even talking to the opposite sex, turns out he had been the one cheating the whole time. I'd leave. 

Gw

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Yeah there are some red flags here. Not so much his reaction to you dancing, you admitted you were interested in this guy, your BF could care less if he is interested in you. But your feeling stressed? He flips out if you talk to other guys? You dream of leaving. This is not healthy.

He

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Does he act/ react like that whenever you talk to a guy? It sounds kinda controlling, I think you should take a step back and decide what you want.