Need help wit the bump :(

Hey guys! So I know this will come off as shallow and let me start by saying I am so grateful for this pregnancy praise the Lord every minute for this blessing!
It's the bump I'm having trouble with. I normally am a thicker girl but with a flat (flabby) but flat tummy. This is it now at 9.2 weeks. I just look plain fat and my belly button is the size of Mars. Am I the only one? I'm having trouble embracing this bump because I just feel like a fatty and that its all fat. Even my hubby was like "ummmm I don't think it's supposed to look like that 😳" thoughts? Advice? I feel embarrassed that it's so big and I don't want to feel this way 😔