Hmmm advice maybe??

Me & my SO have been together four years so far, he has been with one other person, as have I. They only slept together twice & had just normal sex. Nothing fancy, no foreplay. So anyway, ever since we've been together he's only been downtown a handful of times.. Unfortunately, I can't get off from just having sex. I really want foreplay. I am more than happy to give him a BJ. I just don't know what to do, he is very plain & boring in the bedroom. I need to spice things up, cause I'm losing interest. He is the best man in this world, I am absolutely in love with him. But I do believe that sex can ruin a relationship. Help! What would you do? What do I do? Uh 😕
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Je

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Ive had a couple of relations my fiance and i have tryed a vibrador not too big. he plays with me then i play a lil bj then ride the hell out of him go to the sex Store. Together a try a couple things tasty lub..bullets ect..have fun..

Sy

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Comminiation tell him what you need, even show him if you have too

Va

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You need to sit down with him and have a serious and open conversation about your sex life and what you are thinking about and wanting. I've been with my partner five years. We've been married for a year and I'm 28. I can say with all honesty, having totally open and vulnerable conversations about sex, orgasms and bodily functions can be hard to do, even for the closest people. In the last 6months I have felt more confident talking about embarrassing things with my husband, and I've never felt more intimate with him than I do now.