We started out as friends with an open relationship to see others outside of us being together as long as we were respectful. Now both of us have feelings. Recently I feel that he may be shutting down or pulling away, what is your opinion? I think it's because we had an agreement and he's not happy with it. But I don't think its fair to say you have feelings and pull away. If he wants a relationship then he should say so right, so that whatever goes on outside of us two can stop. Help...