Even though the comment wasn't directed to me, my mom told my brother, if he wasn't her son, she'd hate him...but that isn't that a lie she's telling herself?

Can you really lose love for your child....why would she say this?

She's said a lot of kean things to him; I hate you, you make me want to hate you, you are going to be the death of me and so on.

I know for a fact, if she could only have 1, she'd pick me and I despise that. We're twins and to know he isn't as loved as me ,makes me feel like I've failed him as his older twin.