Relationship choices...?

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So I have a question... I am with someone who  is absolutely perfect and I'm totally in love with him and the best I ever been. But then last night I went out with some friends and got pretty drunk. And flirty. I ended up staying in a guys car and having a bit of fun. I.e  foreplay and bj but not much more than that. It was all fun and he knows that and I'm not attracted to him. But I do not feel guilty about it and feel I have no need to tell my partner. because we are long distance anyway.  Anyone felt this way before or been in a similar position who could help? I want to stay with my partner because everything we have is beautiful. Genuine people only thanks

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I think your relationship isn't as perfect as your making out otherwise you wouldn't have cheated. How would you feel if you found out he had done something similar?

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If it's so perfect and beautiful why are you seeking attention from others?

If you aren't willing to tell your partner about it  it's cheating plain and simple. Doesn't sound so perfect to me.

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Please leave him and find someone close to you to date. While he is being faithful to you, you're being disrespectful and unfaithful. Just because it's long distance does not mean it doesn't not share the same values as a close relationship because they do.

Your relationship isn't perfect, you proved that by cheating. If it was, you wouldn't have done what you did.

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If you don't have enough respect for him to tell him and don't feel any need to for the love of god leave him. He doesn't deserve that.

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Yeah, that is something you should fess up to immediately. Because it is cheating.

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That is cheating and it's nasty. Long distance or not. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot? Would you honestly be ok with some random chick giving him a bj? Especially if you only find out later on. Sorry to say, but this is not "perfect" and building a relationship on lies will only lead to heart ache.

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Genuine people would tell you this: You cheated and you should tell your partner.

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Tell your partner. You cheated.

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I was in a two year long distance relationship that i am now married into, that is cheating my dear...the whole concept of in a differnt zip code not my problem is bull crap. We fair to your so and tell him so he can make the decision...ugh distance relationships require a strong level of commitment unless you have agreed with each other that your allowed to have an open relationship..ugh

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For one no relationship is perfect in my opinion. It's a lot of work. With me saying that I think that subconsciously something isn't right for you to be wanting to do those things with other guys. I would think to yourself, what would you want him to do if the situation was switched. Good luck and I hope the best works out girl!

Relationship choices...?

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