I'm pregnant!?

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I'm 20 and discovered I'm pregnant a week and half ago and got the confirmation 2 days ago... This is from friends with benefits! Oh goodness I have to go through with an abortion and he's gonna be there for me but gosh, after this where do we go from there?

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Adoption???

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You don't have to do anything. Abortion is a choice not a requirment.

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I wish you could give it to me I have been trying for a year and still nothing

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I don't know if you want to keep the child but if you do I would go for it. Next time if you're going to continue having sex with your FWB I suggest birth control and a condom so you can avoid a situation like this again:) Good luck!!

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There's no shame in the choice you're making. If you want an abortion it's alright. My only suggestion is to talk to someone afterwards. Ask the nurse for resources to help you reconcile your feelings.

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You're aborting a baby and your main concern is what's going to happen with my fwb?

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Though this wasn't planned and you may not think you're ready..you should consider keeping it. I am currently 20 and pregnant as well. There's lots of resources that can help you get through. Of course it's your choice and I'm not here to bash you for whatever desicion you make but more than likely your child will be a blessing to you :) good luck!

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It's fantastic that he's going to be there for you. But please remember that you have choices here. Just like you don't have to carry to term, you also don't have to abort (even if that's what he wants).

If you just used that wording without thinking and the abortion really is your choice, then I wish you luck and a speedy recovery.

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Have the. Baby

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Please sit down and really think about this decision I went through a terrible situation when I was 20 and I regret it EVERYDAY do I understand it's not good timing and not planned but please take time and think it out throughly. For the sake of the little one inside you. I'm praying for you and to give you the strength to make the right choice.

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