Just here to rant for a sec.

Really just wanted to rant because im annoyed. Rude comments and such arent needed.

So I live with my boyfriend and his family (him, his mother and 13 y/o brother). His mom is never here because she works all the time. So his brother gets in trouble all the time at school and she never sees a need to punish him yet complains that he is out of control. To help her out I make sure that we all help out around the house because if not no one will do it. They live dirty and don't care. So the other day his brother brings a letter home from school and he got OSS. So I told him look I believe in being punished so here's what is going to happen. Everyday of OSS you can clean something (it isn't much of a punishment but he's not my kid) at first he says ok and doesn't fight back. He vacuumed all the floors. The next day he was supposed to clean the bathroom and didn't. I told him you have to do it tomorrow. My bf and I had to go out of town for family stuff and we came back and found out his mom took his brother to his friends house for the weekend. Personally if he was my kid his ass would be at home not at a friends having fun while he's supposed to be in trouble. So he comes back today I asked him to clean that bathroom and told him both me and my bf did the dishes and it's his turn. He just sits there and ignores me. I'm like you're just going to sit there and ignore me? No response. So whatever I walk away. Then I put a movie on for my bf and I and he walks away I'm like are you going to come in and watch the movie thats why I put it on. And he's like yeahhhh but smart ass hell. Then he had this little piece of paper in his and and jokingly I was like you're jusg holding a piece of paper? He looks at me and just looks away. Like wtf why are these people always ignoring me?! I'm not sure what I've done. I even said to my bf um ok just ignore me and he just sat there. I feel like I'm always doing something wrong and I honestly couldn't tell you what it is. His mom thanks me for trying to help out with her younger son but she still doesn't discipline him. EVER! She is the reason he doesn't listen but complains all the time about him. Like shut up and do something about it he's your son! And she always tries to make my bf feel guilty because she always insists he helps out and when he tries to and tells him things he shouldn't be doing she gets pissed but when hes yelling at her and stuff she wants my bf to help. That's his brother not his son. She forgets that sometimes. I love them don't get me wrong but they have an awkward relationship with their mother. She never tells them she loves them or tries to hug them or anything. I honestly think that's why her youngest son is so bad because she doesn't show she cares at all. He's about to repeat this grade too because she never gets him to school or he's always late because she never wakes up on time then yells at us to get him to school because she's going to be late to work. It's so annoying. I'm thankful that she is letting me live here but I can't wait to get my own place with my bf with our baby because idk how much more I can take.