Really irritates me

It really irritates me that just because someone is trying fir a long time and someone around you gets pregnant or have an abortion you take your emotions out on them. Its not their fault you're not pregnant and your not living their life. I understand emotions and things but forreal it's sickening. I've been getting hate from one of my

"friends" for getting pregnant after trying tor 4 months but she's been trying for close to a year. Even though this pregnancy is not guaranteed she stopped talking to me because it" hurts" her too much. Also I don't agree with abortions but it's not your life, it's the girls choice and weather I believe it's a horrible choice, I still won't treat them like crap because of it. I just don't understand but just wanted to rant. Really hurt about my so called friend and reading about this girl's abortion and people bashing her.