First apt Friday 3/6

I have my first doctor appointment on Friday am, I am guessing and hoping they will do an ultrasound to check on my little bean. My hubby has been going through a lot right now and is really struggling. I don't fully understand, but am being as supportive as I can. Starting yesterday I have been having some light random (meaning not consistent) cramping. I haven't mentioned to my hubby because of everything else he is going through right now...I am so nervous about Friday. I am praying so badly to see and hear a heartbeat because I just don't know how he would react to bad news. We had a miscarriage several several years ago and he took it exceptionally hard. I am just so scared. Any advice on what to do or say to him prior? Any prayers would be appreciated. I feel like I am losing my mind over the anticipation of our apt