Not excited yet. Anyone else?

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I'm not sure if I'm a bit different to others. But I am 20w4d along and I haven't hit the excited stage yet. I have found out the sex. I'm having a girl. I felt her kick with my hands for the first time. Still not excited yet.
Has anyone experienced this?
I'm living each day as they come. I feel that I should be over the moon. I'm feeling weird not having those feelings. 😁

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I feel the same. I get happier when I'm buying something for baby but it fades. I did this with my first and then fell in love the second she was out of my body & in my arms. This time I'm not excited and I'm dealing with gender disappointment & guilt about sharing my time with my 2 year old. Just trusting that my body will respond the way it did the first time. 
I don't think there is a right or wrong way to feel. Especially when something is taking over your body & hormones. Don't stress, it's a completely different feeling when you have the baby.

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Don't beat yourself up over it... I think we're all dealing with a mix of feelings with all the hormones gushing through us right now!

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I have mostly felt nervous and anxious, and I'm 20 weeks as well. The first time I really felt excited was a few days ago when I found out my closest cousin is also pregnant and only about 2 weeks behind me!  I have moments of feeling calm and happy but haven't felt super excited either, really.

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I feel the same. But this is my second so I kinda have my toddler occupying all me time still and making me forget about everything else at times

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I'm the same way some days I'm excited other days not so much. No need to worry it's normal to feel the way you do. I'm sure as you get closer to your due date you will be excited.

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I am like that some days... I don't feel movement everyday so those days I am a little less excited and I feel overwhelmed some days... I'd say we are normal :)

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I am kinda in the same boat. I have a 8 yr old boy who has anger issues and I'm trying to spend one on one time with him but it's hard when I have a 2.5 yr old boy as well. I'm now 19+2 weeks I'll find out sex next Saturday. I'm excited to find out if boy or girl but I'm just not really excited about having another baby in the house quite yet.

Not excited yet. Anyone else?

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