Feeling left out..

My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years now...and we met thru work...he is a shy, quiet person. Moved to ohio from Pennsylvania about 8 years ago... Anyway...I'm a loud outspoken person with lots of friends. My friends all met him before we got married...didn't know him know him. But like him because he treats me well....  But I feel left out from my single friends!!!   We try and do a weekly girls night, but when it's their turn to host it requires going to a bar(where my ex of 5 years is) or its so last minute!!! I feel they don't understand that my life is different now, I can't just up and go when I want, I also don't want to go to a bar all the time!   They go do stuff without me which is fine but I don't even get invited...  I don't know if I'm over reacting or not... And I have talked to them on multiple occasions. Help!