Was it rape?

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He wanted sex. I said no. He shoved me onto his bed and pulled my pants down enough to trap my legs together and started having sex with me even though I kept telling him "stop" and "no". Eventually I just laid there and waited for him to finish.

I feel like because I said no that it WAS rape but because I gave up and was laying there and he gave me an orgasm it wasn't. This happened a couple years ago but it still bothers me.

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Who the eff voted no!? That's ridiculous! It's pretty obvious that it was.

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You said "no" = rape
Period

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An orgasm is a natural reaction, you can't stop it from happening. It doesn't mean you liked it, either. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please don't blame yourself.

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Yes it is rape! You need to report him!

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You can say yes a million times and then say no once and then it's no. If you say no and he does it anyway then it's rape. I'm so sorry you had to go through this.

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Anytime you have to ask yourself this question, the answer is going to be yes! Sorry you still need to relive this in your head for so many years!

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An orgasm doesn't mean it wasn't rape. It's because he was simply hitting the right spot. But yes, you were raped. I'm sorry :(

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No consent on your behalf means it was rape. Yes, some self defense is needed, but if you can't muster up any kind of defense and all you can do is lay there while it happens, you have to do something about it afterwards. Report him. Stay away from him. Anything you can do to make sure it doesn't happen again.

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If you say no its rape

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I had this happen to me very long time ago. Yes it is rape. I'm so sorry you had that happen it is never a good thing to go through. Keep your head up and talk to someone about it it really helps. I wish you the best

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