New relationships

I'm 22 and was with a man for 3 and half years long distance. We broke up about 6 weeks ago now and I've been talking to and hoping to meet someone soon for a date. My main worry is that I won't be comfortable with him and let my guard down. Being in a long distance relationship is hard and what's even harder was the sex life when I have a high sex drive, I'm trying not to scare this new guy away by being too forward but I would like to get it out my system but don't want to 'play the field'...any advice out there would be much appreciated!