How to tell your fiancé you're pregnant when it wasn't quite planned?

Question

My fiancé and I have a 19 month old boy,no have a almost 5 year old boy from my last marriage, we had a pregnancy scare about a month ago and it got us talking about if we wanted another or if we were ready. I started putting serious thought into and figured I'd rather wait until after summer I've been pregnant threw summer it's not fun and I've had a baby right before summer it's a lot easier. With the pregnancy scare I went to switch bc and found out my mirena had come out at some point so I have a prescription for the pill but I have to wait until my period comes, which should be Saturday 3/21/15 the past few days my back has started to hurt my boobs more sore and sensitive craving foods... I just felt pregnant... So this morning I took a test knowing it was most likely too soon to tell and there is an extremely faint line.
My fiancé hates to wear condoms with us, he knew the risk I knew the risk I tried to get him to wear condone or at least pull out (which I know only works like 70% of the time if done correctly) 
I'm so nervous to tell him. He knows how I had really wanted one after the scare but I then realized it was too soon.

Should I wait a few days and buy another test because it's so faint... Or tell him today and still take another test in a few days? I'm soooo stressed!!!!! Please help!!!!

Answer

You don't have to go through it alone. Just tell him. You both knew the risks, and it's not like he doesn't want anymore kids.

So just tell him because he's your husband and he should be there to support you through this. And then test again in a few days when you're both together.

You wait until you know for sure to tell other family, but your husband is another matter.

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I would wait and take another test and make sure you are really pregnant before telling him. I would even go to the doctor first to confirm. Good luck hun! I am sure everything will great!

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Tell him today. If ur scared he will be too and u guys can go thru it together.

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Definitely tell him. My SO said he'd always rather know what's going on even if it's a surprise or even if it ends up being a false alarm. It's more frustrating to him if I'm acting weird and he has no clue.

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Just tell him! It's the right thing to do.

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I'd wait a few days and test again

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Just come out and say it

How to tell your fiancé you're pregnant when it wasn't quite planned?

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