argument need help

Me and my boyfriend got into and argument, I honestly don't even know how it all started but previous to that I told him I got a promotion at work and I had told him what my DM said. Like I said I don't even know how the argument had started but he told me I wasn't shit that I I'm weak so my feelings was hurt, so I had said my manager said I I'm ambitious, I have goals and that I I'm strong he took it so wrong. I just want to know was I wrong or their something to it. Please let me know