Just broke up, I'm going crazy, please help

I have been indecisive on whether to end things with my bf or not for a while. I told him months ago that something needs to change. (Move in together, ring....SOMETHING) He agreed but has not done anything. He went on a trip in the US with his cousin for 5 days and never called, texted or skyped me. It is hard to find a single town without Internet or cell service in the US or at least in the state we live in. He did this when he visited another city just for fun. Left without telling me, never called or anything. This time I got really frustrated and was dumb and texted that we are done. He is in shock and told me how he is/was in the process of selling his place so we could move in together. I never knew that. He was offered two jobs and said he accepted the one closer to me so we could be together. He never told me that was why. Small things have been building up, but I just don't know if I made the right decision or should take him back. Help!!! Please don't judge, I just really need help/opinion on whether to take him back or move on. Am I making the right choice? I always used my gut instinct in my previous relationships, but I can't figure it out this time.