So here's my situation. My husband and I want to start trying to conceive after September this year. My sister's wedding is August next year. My concern is that I'll either be pregnant and about to pop during the wedding, or just gave birth and still recovering during the wedding. It's about a 10 hour drive to where the wedding is too. If you were in my shoes, would you try to time the pregnancy to where it wouldn't interfere with the wedding (answer choice 1), or just start trying when we had intended to and see what happens (answer choice 2)? My mom thinks the latter, but I'm concerned about being healthy enough to travel, and I'm concerned about the bridesmaid dress I'll be wearing! Thank you for your input.