What do you think?

Megan • 26 years old
A few times I have voted on faint lines. After a while when the votes are overwhelmingly "no" from time to time the poster gets very upset and asks us to look harder, they swear it's there. Then the proceed to post different angles, different tests, symptoms, and proceed to get upset with the results of the poll and the people who comment politely that they don't see it. Afterall, the poster is usually asking if anybody sees it. I think wanting to see something so bad that you convince yourself something is there and only being let down is just incredibly stressful. I've been there. Do you think that stress in itself could hinder your chances to conceive? Last month I was constantly checking, squinting at the tests, holding them in the sunlight, taking pictures in all types of filters, just all in all trying to make something out of nothing. I literally was walking around constantly with a stick that I had speed on bugging my fiance with it. I just wasn't conceiving at all. So in February I decided to just wait it out. I didn't buy any tests whatsoever. My periods are generally pretty regular. I started having symptoms and my period was late but I was focusing on distressing to the point that I didn't realized I missed my period even. And bam! Bfp! I want to be supportive to those who are ttc with trouble. I have not had trouble, but my sister has been trying for years and I see her heartache every month. Destressing and just having fun with it helped me through to my bfp, hopefully it will help others too :) I understand some women have underlying conditions, as do I cauterized fallopian tube) but I have heard so many success stories from women who had so many hurdles. So don't lose faith! I'll be praying for you!